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The pillars of my world

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has often come to mind that old song, with great success, said that in life there are three basic things to be happy: health, money and love. However, there are also more mundane and superficial people who buy a truck or tractor yellow, and thus have their happiness ... wildlife.

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My scheme of happiness and emotional balance seems to me years back-to-a little complex. Although I hope it does not further complicate, hopes and realities doubt follow suit.

In my perception, I am of the opinion that a person's emotional balance is based on a set of pillars. Some pillars are solid and others are weak, some are more stable and others vary in thickness by time cycles. Enfin, the emotional balance of all quisqui varies constantly. The important thing is that this oscillation not to increase too, from wobbling around and the "castle" you are mounted comes down. To do so, within you, where your innermost feelings reside, provides a constant struggle to stay upright on those pillars that support you think.

pillars What are we talking about? For in the health, economy, roots, children, love, friends, work, hobbies, ... can be more pillars, although at this moment I can not realize anyone else. And often happens that you realize that there was a pillar precisely when it breaks.

Where, by circumstances of life, there is a pillar of their weakening, we unconsciously rely more strongly on the other that we see stronger and safe to maintain that emotional stability. Not always the damaged pillar is repaired. Sometimes out of laziness, others profound grief, others fear tackled the problem and get to work on the foundations of the pillar, just believing one - naively - that "time" will heal, that "time" that pillar grow and be strong again as it was in the past.

A fact that occurred recently in the work has been done, the pillar where I took refuge in the past two years, strongly stagger. I happened to meet alone with the responsibilities and decision making. Has been for me a jolt that made me review all pillars supporting my life emotionally, and then I thought I knew of her weak and fragile state.

And as if Autumn own syndrome, or something contagious, fears have soured me the courage and the heart. Fear of loneliness, fear that something or someone to hurt my loved ones, fear of losing, afraid of everything.

Restoring confidence and security, dispel fears and strengthen the damaged pillars, feed your soul with love and grow in self-esteem, learn to choose well way to go and change your perspective with which to focus on principles and happiness in your life ... things are not easy or quick. Need to think in solitude, reflect on what happens to you really communicate with others and especially with your loved ones, and put into crisis sincerarte values \u200b\u200byou had to settle in your brain forever ...

But I'm very lucky because I have helped all my loved ones and, therefore, thank you for your hugs, kisses and comforting words.

I love you.

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